Sex Tips & Dating Advise

Increase Sexual Intimacy Through Sexual Touch

2007-02-20T00:32:00.000-08:00

Take time for touch.
Exploring with touch is a subtle and intimate activity. Make a date to do this when there won’t be many distractions, and when you don’t have to rush off somewhere in half an hour. This is definitely not a “quickie” kind of sex.
Ground yourself.
Think about exploring touch with your partner almost as a kind of meditation. Try to clear your mind before you start this kind of sex. Time it to happen right after you’ve exercised, or done yoga, or just go for a walk beforehand. Even more than other kinds of sex, if you’re distracted both you and your partner will be aware of it, so you want to do your best to feel calm and “grounded”.
Make your partner comfortable.
Start off with a hot bath, give them some time to themselves (if that’s hard to come by in your house), whatever is comforting and relaxing for them. If they are living with physical pain make sure they get into a comfortable position. You don’t have to do this on a bed, although that might be best for some people. You can do it on a mat on the floor, or on a comfortable chair. Use pillows and blankets to get your partner as comfortable as they can be.
Set the mood.
Make the lighting soft, make sure the room temperature is comfortable (not too hot, and not too cold), put on some music that won’t be too distracting (probably avoid music with lyrics). The goal is to create an atmosphere that will take you both to a deeper level of relaxation, but not distract either of you from experiencing what is happening between you.

Talk Dirty? Speak Sensually…

2007-02-19T23:51:00.000-08:00

Dirty talk usually (but not always) involves a bit of raunch. While you might be playing out a fantasy involving a molecular biologist and a computer programmer, more often than not the words that want to come out of our mouths in the heat of passion are a bit less clinical.
But most of us are raised being told certain words (about sexual body parts and sexual acts) are wrong, offensive, embarrassing, or otherwise off limits. As a result we may feel embarrassed and expect our partner to reject attempts at dirty talk.
A great way to bypass this embarrassment and free your inner cunning linguist (I'm sorry, I couldn't help it) is to try talking dirty in a language your partner doesn’t understand.

Telling your partner what you want them to do with you (or a specific part of you) may feel strange at first, but you’d be amazed how much more comfortable it feels when you know they can’t actually understand the details of what your saying.
This sex tip involves some homework. You don’t need to go out and learn an entire new language (although people have done worse things for sex). You just need to learn a few words, and something about pronunciation and you’re off to the races.

Sex Tips for Virgins on Their Wedding Night

2007-02-19T23:49:00.000-08:00

If you'll be a virgin when you get married, you're probably feeling some apprehension about what will happen on your wedding night. Here are tips and advice to help things go smoothly.

Pick a quiet moment to ask your soon-to-be-spouse "are you feeling nervous at all about our wedding night?" Odds are, he or she will be relieved to have the opportunity to talk about it. Talk about what your hopes and fears are. You may want to visit a counselor, or talk about sex during your pre-wedding counseling. If you are too nervous to bring up the subject of sex, consider leaving a magazine open, or even forwarding this article in an email.

When a woman loses her virginity, it is possible for it to be a little bloody or painful.

However, it shouldn't last for too long, and it is almost never very serious. To make things easier, make sure there's plenty of foreplay before you try penetration. You'll also want to have a good lubricant. I recommend a brand called "Slippery Stuff" because it is safe to use with latex, and it's glycerin-free. (Glycerin can cause yeast infections.) Even if you use a lubricated condom, you'll want to use extra lube. And, if you're afraid of bleeding on the hotel sheets, bring a towel with you, or your own sheets.

Will he be able to maintain an erection? What happens if he can't? The pressure of the wedding night can be too much for many men. If things aren't "working," try to change up the mood. Spend some time kissing, and fondling each other. Perhaps make a game out of how many different body parts you can kiss, or be a little more serious by talking about the wedding, your love for each other, and milestones ahead of you. Will I be any good? How can I wow my new husband or wife? Sex, like most things, takes practice. You are likely to be a little clumsy and to feel a little goofy. Take things slowly, and try to listen to your partner. Find out what feels good, and what doesn't. Don't be afraid to ask! But don't concentrate on how mind-blowing (or not!) the physical feelings are. Instead try to be gentle with one another, and focus on how amazing it is to finally be in each others arms as a married couple

Arrousal Words

2007-02-02T12:47:00.000-08:00

Hi

i have heard that many wives like to talk group sex while they r with husband.

hot sex tips / sex tips to please her

2007-02-02T12:03:00.000-08:00

Well first i want to tell you that be so rough while you are doing sex with your princess.

Here i will explain you most sesitive part of your little princess body.

1. Touch her inner thigh softly like your are doing gentle massage and yes your should talk her simultaneously.

2. Touch the joint of her fingure and sometime lick her beleive me he will be moan.

3. Kiss her hug her and give a pressere on her back behind stomach and attract her towards you.

4. Massage back side of her neck area gently.

You just do this first and see what happen than i will tell you how to react her when you are in bed with her

G spot Massage

2006-12-07T06:11:00.000-08:00

The G spot. here you'll learn what it is, where it is, and what to do with it. The technique takes only minutes to learn but you may need a few tries for it to work.
the G in G spot stands for Gräfenberg, after the German doctor who discovered it in the 1950s. Now you know.
The G spot is a zone about two or three inches inside the vagina on the front wall, closest to the clitoris or pubic bone. With the right technique and a bit of practice it can yield lots and lots of pleasure for women including orgasm, multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.

To the average lover, the G-Spot is a mysterious and elusive myth. That`s because it`s hard to find and doesn`t come out to play unless treated properly. In fact, many women find Sacred Gate play uncomfortable without training. But when properly loved, the G-Spot can be the gateway to untold ecstasy and Supreme Bliss.

Here`s what Awakening The Sacred Gate says about that... "When you excite it, it swells under the surface of yoni`s (vagina`s) skin. You feel the hard "bean" under yoni`s lining. This explains why many lovers have trouble finding the G-Spot and enjoying stimulation. Because it`s under the lining of yoni`s front wall, it`s not particularly sensitive or even noticeable without a high level of excitement. Many women report little or no feeling at first. Some even feel initial discomfort that obviously discourages further play."

HOW TO :

It's best if both partners read this page. Here's the technique:

Discuss beforehand with your partner what you're going to do.
Make sure your guy's nails are clean and trimmed short.
LOTS and LOTS of foreplay (minimum 30 minutes, preferably an hour).
Lie on your back and pull your knees up. It also helps to place a pillow or two under your hips.
Your partner lies between your legs. Ask him to gently place his fingers two or three inches inside your vagina.
He then makes a "come here" motion with his fingers.
His fingers are now on your G spot. He massages back and forth with his fingers, gently at first, then harder, eventually using lots of pressure.
That's it! With luck you'll reach your first orgasm within 3 to 5 minutes of hard massaging. It has to be hard - the clit needs a light touch, the G spot needs much heavier pressure

The G spot itself feels like a very subtle bump 2 or 3 inches inside your vagina, about 1 to 2 inches in diameter. When he hits it right you'll know!
The important things are foreplay, bringing your knees up to your chest, and hard pressure on your G spot. Hard pressure on the G spot is vital since it doesn't respond to light rubbing or stroking, only heavy, deep massaging.
Foreplay builds your sexual excitement and fills your vaginal and clitoral areas with blood - the equivalent of a man getting an erection. Lots of foreplay makes any sexual touch much more pleasurable. If you go straight to G spot massage with no foreplay it won't work!